Current available events and workshops:

'Do it despite...'  Sat 17th October 9.30-1pm.  Online Zoom event.

This live workshop has now taken place.  If you want to purchase the recorded workshop please click here 




"I can't because......Everyone will laugh at me......I don't have the confidence..... I'll fail......I don't have the will power......I'm too lazy.......I don't have the time........"

So you wait. You wait for the day when you will feel more confident, have the time, the money, the skills or whatever else it is that you are waiting for.

But what if that day never comes? What then?

This was me. I have had anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) for twenty years. OCD is a disorder that is characterised by distressing, intrusive thoughts, so as you can imagine I get how unpleasant thoughts and feelings can impact your life.

I always wanted my own business but thought,  "I'll do it when my OCD isn't as bad; when I have the time and the money". Then as my 35th birthday approached I suddenly thought,  "What if I never recover from OCD? What if this is my life?"

This should have made me feel dejected but for some reason it didn't. Suddenly, instead of struggling and fighting my OCD I thought that,  "If I wait until I am recovered from my OCD I might never do the things I want to do. I have to do it now, in the present!" For some reason this felt liberating. I could now concentrate on working with what I had, instead of waiting for the moment when everything was 'perfect'.

I didn't realise it at the time but I had finally accepted my OCD. After training be a life coach I later stumbled across Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). I realised that in accepting my OCD and setting goals in line with my values I was already, unknowingly, incorporating the basic premise of ACT. The unpleasant thoughts and feelings were still there, but I had stopped struggling with them, meaning I could spend my time and energy towards creating the life I wanted. The more I learned about ACT the more it made sense to me and I started to use little bits of it in my coaching practice.

I found Acceptance and Commitment techniques were great at helping clients stuck in a loop of unhelpful thoughts and feelings. By helping them 'unhook' from unpleasant thoughts they overcame barriers that for years had been stopping them living the life they wanted. Although the thoughts were still there my clients could respond to them more effectively, they could achieve their value based goals despite their thoughts and feelings.

This is why I am doing this workshop to help you 'Do it Despite....'

This course is for you if.....

  • You want to achieve your goals but find you can't because of unhelpful thoughts, feelings and emotions.

  • You have tried positive thinking and found it didn't work for you.

  • You want another tool to help you feel more resilient.

  • You want to live more in the present moment.

  • You want to push through difficult barriers.

  • You have tried to achieve a goal in the past but you gave up.

  • You want to set goals in line with your values.

  • You want to lead a full and meaningful life.


What will we cover?

  • What are values and why they are important.

  • The differences between values and goals.

  • The fruitless pursuit of happiness.

  • Being willing to experience everything life has to offer.

  • Effective goal setting.

  • Overcoming difficult barriers.

  • Responding more effectively to negative thoughts, feelings and self talk.

  • Unhooking from unhelpful thoughts.

  • Stepping out of your comfort zone.

  • Connecting to the present moment.

  • Taking committed action.

  • Creating your meaningful life.


What will you take away with you?

  • A better understanding of your values, priorities and where your focus needs to be.

  • How to set a value based goal.

  • Goal setting tools and techniques to help you stay motivated and focused.

  • How to recognise and plan for the barriers that may get in your way.

  • An awareness of how your thoughts affect your behaviour.

  • Techniques to help you unhook from unhelpful thoughts and feelings and step out of your comfort zone.

  • Mindfulness exercises for busy people to help you 'be in the present'.

  • An exercise for crisis times.

  • An insight into creating your meaningful life.


So if you find you have tried (and probably failed) to think positive; If you want to stop struggling with your thoughts and start accepting them; If you want to start appreciating and living your life in a meaningful way then join me to

Do it Despite..........


***You will need access to Zoom for this workshop

About this Event

So what's keeping you stuck?

If goal setting was easy you would already have done what you want to achieve, am I right? But it's those niggling, interfering thoughts that stop you moving forward,

OCD Awareness Workshop-  22nd November 2019, Manchester.

Bespoke workplace workshops available:

  • Building confidence.

  • Resilience.

  • Choosing the right career path.

  • Coaching skills for management.

  • Coaching skills for customer service.

  • OCD Awareness.

  • Building rapport with customers.

  • Building rapport and increasing client base for Personal Trainers.

  • Coaching skills to get the best results from your personal training client.

Would you like to arrange a Coaching or OCD awareness event for a group of people?  If so please contact me.